My daughter Emma was twenty on Halloween 31 October 2009 . She is a master of multitasking . She is balancing all of these . University work doing a History degree at the University of Portsmouth A part time job at Argos on the Isle of Wight A - live in long term boyfriend Matt Bailey The pressures of living under the same roof as me , my wife Julie , son Adam and the said Matt keeping up good relations with her many good friends - no mean task on its own . keeping her green card options open . On Saturday 7th November she held a birthday and fireworks party for about 30 . It was a resounding success building on a fine history of excellent Halloween Birthday party's going back 15 years and a high point of the social calender